Back to Newsletter Archive
Follow us on the web:

Share the good news of marriage with your friends by forwarding this newsletter to them!

Campus Corner

Action Item: Share this week’s featured podcast with friends who are not of the same faith background as yourself. Everyone from all faith traditions need to be aware that changes in sex and marriage policy are creating a “new moral universe,” as Dr. J put it.

Talking Point: Not only have voters rejected same sex marriage: the majority of courts have done so, too. Only four state courts have ruled that man/woman marriage is discriminatory, while six state and federal courts have ruled the opposite. Even four major international cases have upheld laws defining marriage as the union of a husband and wife.

 

DoMA and the UK foster system Dr. J is once again a guest on Issues, Etc., where she and Todd discuss a couple of marriage-related issues. In the US, President Obama's refusal to defend DoMA, the Defense of Marriage Act, is in the news. In Great Britain, a couple has been removed from the foster care system because they aren't willing to indoctrinate the children in their care with sufficiently celebratory views on homosexuality. These issues are being used to create a "new moral universe." We hear a lot about "live and let live," but that definitely isn't what's going on here. (Click the POD icon.)

Dear Dr. J.

Lutheran Public Radio: Dr. J is usually on live on Tuesdays from 2-2:15 p.m. Pacific Time (Click the link to listen live or find a station near you.)

April 4--Dr. J will be a guest on Chuck LiMandri’s radio show from 6-7p.m. Pacific. 1000 AM, KCEO in San Diego.

April 6--Wheaton College near Chicago

April 8--Texas A&M University

April 11--Hosting 1000 AM, KCEO in San Diego 6-7 p.m. Pacific

April 18--UC Davis

April 19--Stanford University

April 25--Hosting 1000 AM, KCEO in San Diego 6-7 p.m. Pacific

Miss an issue of the newsletter? Check out the archives here.

Dear Dr. J.

Do you need advice on how to improve your marriage or relationship, or on how to find the right person for you? Expert Dr. J is here for you. Click here to ask your question, which may be featured anonymously in this newsletter for the benefit of all.

Read past questions and answers here.

Need help with your marriage? You can also check out Dr. J's "101 Tips for a Happier Marriage!"

  • To prevent mailbox filters from deleting mailings from The Ruth Institute, add jmorse@ruthinstitute.org to your address book
March 29, 2011 Volume 6 Issue 14

Welcome New Subscribers from South Carolina and San Diego! We have new subscribers from the abstinence education conference Dr. J attended last week. The South Carolina Parents Involved in Education, in cooperation with the Office of Minority Health, sponsored this event, which reached out to clergy and faith leaders from the African Methodist Episcopal from every county in South Carolina. We also have new subscribers from the San Diego Women’s VIP club. Welcome!

Reel Love Challenge: Honorable Mention--Flip Camera prize

I worked on this with Kendel Christensen (below, right). He should get much of the credit, as I found out about the Ruth Institute and this contest through him.

I think that video is a very powerful medium for getting any point across these days. And especially to change culture. People pay attention to it. When someone goes to a website and they have the option between reading the text about something and "Click to Watch", of course we know what most will do. Even if the video would take longer to watch then reading, they would probably still just watch.

Life long married love is the foundation of a sound society. Most people who complain about our society being somehow corrupt don't look to the root of the problem - leaderless families and family-less communities. The family is the foundation of the community and the community is the base of a society. If the fundamental base is not intact, all else will degrade. No matter what programs or laws are passed to improve societal issues, if the family is overlooked, it will come and go like shoe-polish. And life long married love, between a man and a woman, is the key to successful families.

    ~Andrew Proctor

American Courts on Marriage: Is Marriage Discriminatory?

By Joshua Baker & William C. Duncan, Legal Analysts

The majority of courts to consider the issue, as well as the majority of people voting on it, have rejected a right to same-sex marriage. Over the past decade, the overwhelming majority of Americans who have been able to vote on the definition of marriage have soundly rejected the idea that same sex marriage is a civil right. Thirty states have have enacted amendments to their constitutions defining marriage as the union of a husband and wife. In Maine, voters rejected a state law that redefined marriage, and in Iowa, voters defeated all of the three judges up for retention who had voted in favor of same sex marriage.

It is less well known that the majority of American courts have also rejected the idea that there exists in state and national constitutions a right to same sex marriage.

Since 2003, when the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled invalid Massachusetts common law rules recognizing marriage only as the union of husband and wife, a total of four state high courts have ruled marriage laws unconstitutional.

Over the past ten years, at least ten other state and federal courts (excluding cases still pending on appeal) have ruled that marriage laws are not discriminatory, but rather are based on a legitimate relationship between the states' definition of marriage and procreation, including decisions from the high courts of Maryland, New York, and Washington, as well as the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 8th Circuit.

Even in New Jersey, where the courts mandated equal benefits for same sex couples, the courts rejected the notion that the marriage laws constitute sex discrimination.

Additionally, during this time period four major international cases have upheld laws defining marriage as the union of a husband and wife. 

U.S. CASES UPHOLDING MARRIAGE    

State Supreme Courts  
Conaway v. Deane
“Virtually every Maryland case applying Article 46 has dealt with situations where the distinction drawn by a particular governmental inaction or action singled out for disparate treatment, men and women as discrete classes. . . Based on our precedents interpreting Article 46, we conclude that the Legislature's and electorate's ultimate goal in putting in place the Maryland ERA was to put men and women on equal ground, and to subject to closer scrutiny any governmental action which singled out for disparate treatment, men or women as discrete classes. . . .

Turning to the language of Family Law § 2-201, it becomes clear that, in light of the aforementioned purposed of the ERA, the marriage statute does not discriminate on the basis of sex in violation of Article 46. The limitations on marriage effected by Family Law § 2-201 do not separate men and women into discrete classes for the purpose of granting to one class of persons benefits at the expense of the other class. Nor does the statute, facially or in its application, place men and women on an uneven playing field. Rather, the statute prohibits equally both men and women from the same conduct."

Continue reading.

Comment on this article

Support Ruth

If this email was forwarded to you from a friend and you would like to subscribe to our newsletter, click here to subscribe.

Ruth Institute